عوامل تأثیرگذار بر روابط فرازناشویی زنان متأهل؛ یک مطالعه کیفی

نوع مقاله: مقاله پژوهشی

نویسندگان

1 دانشجوی دکتری تخصصی روانشناسی، گروه روانشناسی، دانشگاه فردوسی مشهد، مشهد، ایران

2 استادیار گروه روانشناسی، دانشگاه فردوسی مشهد ، ایران

3 استادیار گروه روانشناسی دانشگاه فردوسی مشهد، مشهد، ایران

4 داﻧﺸﯿﺎر ﮔﺮوه روانﺷﻨﺎﺳﯽ ﻣﺸﺎوره و ﺗﺮﺑﯿﺘﯽ، داﻧﺸﮑﺪه ﻋﻠﻮم ﺗﺮﺑﯿﺘﯽ و روانﺷﻨﺎﺳﯽ، داﻧﺸﮕﺎه ﻓﺮدوﺳﯽ ﻣﺸﻬﺪ

چکیده

همواره از تعهد به رابطه زناشویی به‌عنوان یکی از اصول اساسی در ازدواج یاد شده است و روابط فرا­زناشویی با آسیب‌های جبران‌ناپذیری همراه بوده است. هر چند دلایل این مسئله چندان شناخته ‌­شده نیست. بنابراین، هدف از پژوهش حاضر  بررسی عوامل مرتبط با روابط فرا­زناشویی زنان به روش تحلیل کیفی بوده است. جامعه آماری شامل 17 نفر از زنان مراجعه‌کننده به  مراکز بهداشتی درمانی شهر مشهد بودند که به روش نمونه‌گیری هدفمند انتخاب شدند. شیوه اصلی گردآوری داده‌ها در پژوهش حاضر، مصاحبه کیفی عمیق از نوع نیمه ساختار­یافته با استفاده از اسناد و مصاحبه بود. داده‌ها با استفاده از روش کیفی بررسی شدند. پس از استخراج مفاهیم از مصاحبه‌ها، محتوای به‌دست‌آمده در چهار گروه طبقه فردی، خانوادگی، اجتماعی و مذهبی تنظیم شد. هر یک از این طبقات به‌منزله یک عامل تأثیرگذار بر روابط فرا­زناشویی شرکت­کنندگان قرار گرفت. بررسی نتایج نشان ‌داد عوامل مرتبط با چهار گروه طبقه‌بندی‌شده از عوامل قابل تبیین است. بر اساس این یافته پیشنهادات لازم در مقاله ارائه‌ شده است.

کلیدواژه‌ها


عنوان مقاله [English]

Factors Influencing Extramarital Relationship among Married Females: A Qualitative Study

نویسندگان [English]

  • Parisa Ghafoorian Nourozi 1
  • Mohammad javad Asghari Ibrahim Abad 2
  • Mohammadsaied Abdkhodayie 3
  • Seyed Ali Kimiaee 4
1 PhD student, Faculty Member of Psychology Department, Ferdowsi University of Mashhad, Iran
2 Faculty Member of Psychology Department, Ferdowsi University of Mashhad, Iran
3 Faculty Member of Psychology Department, Ferdowsi University of Mashhad, Iran
4 Faculty Member of Psychology Department, Ferdowsi University of Mashhad, Iran
چکیده [English]

Marital commitment has always been recognized as one of the fundamental principles of marriage, and extramarital relations have led to irritable consequences, although the reasons are not well known. Therefore, this study was aimed to investigate the factors is related to the extra marital relationships of Iranian females through a qualitative analysis. The statistical population consisted 17 women who referred to health centers in Mashhad city. Sampling conducted via purposive method. The main method of collecting data in the present study was a deep semi-structured qualitative interview, documents and interview with experienced professional psychologist. Data were analyzed using qualities method. After extracting data’s, the content was adjusted in to four categories of individual, family, social and religious-beliefs. Each of these categories has been considered as a factor for extra marital relationship of participants. The results of the survey showed that the factors associated with extra marital relationship is explainable in the four categories framework. According the findings, suggestions are presented in the article.

کلیدواژه‌ها [English]

  • females
  • extramarital relationships
  • Infidelity
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